Opinion
Guest
Essay
Measles
Took My Daughter. This Is What I Want Everyone to Know.
April 21,
2026
By
Rebecca Archer
Ms.
Archer is a mother in Salford, England. Her daughter Renae died of a
complication of measles in 2023.
When my
daughter Renae, my firstborn, was 5 months old she spiked a fever. By that
evening, she was having trouble breathing — the color was gone from her face
and I could see her skin tugging in around her ribs. At the hospital the
doctors noted the red spots on her body and diagnosed her with measles.
This was
2013, and Manchester, England, where we lived, was experiencing a measles
outbreak that resulted in more than 1,000 suspected cases. A 1998 study by a
British doctor, Andrew Wakefield, linking the measles, mumps and rubella
vaccine to autism had caused vaccination rates to plummet. The study was later
retracted and Mr. Wakefield stripped of his medical license, but the damage had
been done. In 2013, most of the cases were among school-age children whose
parents had refused to give them the vaccine, which is not compulsory in
Britain, or among babies too young to be vaccinated, like my daughter. (The
first measles vaccine is usually given at 1 year of age.)
While I
was concerned about Renae, I wasn’t panicked by the diagnosis. At the time, I
thought of measles as being like chickenpox. And I knew she was in the right
place, in the hospital. Doctors were able to stabilize her breathing quickly,
and her fever was responding to Tylenol. Renae would feel poorly for a bit, and
then get better.
And
that’s what happened. Within a week she seemed back to normal. What I didn’t
know was that measles can cause long-term complications. A child can seem fine
while the virus slowly replicates in her brain, poised to exact a terrible toll
years later. Because both Britain and the United States are confronting
outbreaks, I am sharing my story. Parents should know just how dangerous this
disease is.
Renae was
a happy and bubbly child. She was early to talk, and speaking in full sentences
well before she turned 2. She could write her name at 3. When she was 8, she
was so proud when she brought home her report card, which said she read at the
level of a teenager. She loved arts and crafts and books — every day after
school she’d ask me to read with her. She squabbled with her two younger
siblings and also adored them. You could never really scold Renae because if
you did, she’d just find a way to make you laugh.
It was in
the spring and summer of 2023, when Renae was 10, and I was pregnant with my
fourth child, when we got the first hints that something might be wrong.
Renae’s
handwriting, which had always been exceptionally neat, got a bit wobbly. Renae
was never an athletic kid, but when I attended her school’s Sports Day, she
wasn’t participating at all. She seemed a bit off balance. She was growing up
quickly. She had just started her period. The school had called to say she was
holding hands with a boy in her class. So when her personality changed and she
became more snappish, I didn’t think much of it at first. She was excited about
the new baby, helping set up the nursery.
In
mid-June, I got a call from her teacher. Renae had had a seizure — could I come
straightaway? By the time we got her to the hospital, she was pretty much back
to herself. “Oh, my God, did it happen at school!?” she asked, mortified. We
were referred to an epilepsy clinic.
A week
after that, she had another seizure. And then several days later, while lying
in bed with a friend, another one. She was admitted to the hospital, where she
received an M.R.I. that showed mild brain swelling. The doctors told us that
this can happen sometimes, that maybe she had a recent infection, and it often
resolves on its own. They started her on an anti-seizure medication and, since
it seemed that she was getting better, released her.
But
toward the end of the summer, she told us she saw things that weren’t there. I
wondered if it could be a side effect of the medication, but she had also
started moving very slowly, almost robotically, and often seemed confused. We
took her back to the hospital, where another M.R.I. showed the swelling in her
brain had become much worse.
The
doctors put her on an antibiotic drip. They did lumbar punctures, collecting
cerebrospinal fluid from between her vertebrae. They hooked her to a machine
that took the blood out of her body, cleaned it, and put it back in.
She was
rapidly slipping away. The nurses tested her strength each day, and each day
she was getting weaker. I remember giving her a bath. She said, “Mom, get in.”
So I did, and I brushed her hair. When she tried to get out, she fell. After
that, we started using a wheelchair.
Renae
would ask me, “What could it be?” I told her once the doctors figured it out,
they could make her better. Her voice got weaker and she started sleeping more
and more.
Within a
couple of weeks, Renae had stopped talking and eating. Her last food was cotton
candy and an Oreo doughnut, which she always loved. She was transferred to the
intensive care unit and given a breathing tube. Though she couldn’t speak to
me, she still squeezed my hand when I talked to her. I worried she could
overhear us talking about her condition, and wondered how scared and confused
she must be.
We got
the diagnosis when one of the tests of her spinal fluid had come back from
London. Renae had subacute sclerosing panencephalitis, a rare complication of
measles. The doctors told me it was fatal, and there was nothing else they
could do.
I ran
outside onto the hospital grounds and sat on a bench. I looked down and at my
feet was a stone that said, “Keep smiling” — it’s a phrase Renae used to say to
me.
Not long
after, one of the doctors got on his knees and held my hands and told me that,
with all the stress, he was worried about the health of the baby I was
carrying. I was 38 weeks pregnant. The C-section was a blur. The doctors told
me to rest, but I said, “No, I’m going back to Renae.” My sister took care of
my newborn, the little sister Renae had been so excited to meet.
That last
weekend in the hospital, watching Renae die, was so traumatic. I told the
doctors that I didn’t want them to continue the treatments. I could tell Renae
was in distress, and I just wanted her to be at peace. We turned off the
machines on a Friday. My family and I stayed in the room that weekend. On
Monday morning, Sept. 25, 2023, Renae took her last breath. It was nine days
before her 11th birthday.
In
January of this year, Britain lost its measles elimination status. Our national
M.M.R. vaccination rate hovers at 84 percent, far below the 95 percent target
set by the World Health Organization.
In the
United States, where schoolchildren are required to be vaccinated against
measles, the national vaccination rate is 92 percent. Many states also allow
for exemptions to vaccine requirements, and as a result, U.S. vaccination rates
are uneven. Last year, the United States saw its highest rate of measles cases
in more than three decades, and the country may soon lose its measles
elimination status as well. Despite this, Health Secretary Robert F. Kennedy
Jr. said he doesn’t think the government should be mandating vaccines, and that
they should be a matter of personal choice.
Parents
must realize that refusing vaccinations doesn’t just put your own child at
risk. It puts other children at risk. I don’t know where Renae picked up
measles. It’s one of the most contagious viruses that exists, and it could have
been from anywhere.
That’s
why herd immunity is so important. If there hadn’t been an outbreak when Renae
was a baby, I don’t think she would have contracted it. She was eligible for
the vaccine just seven months later, and I gave it to her, but it was too late.
For a
long time after Renae died, I couldn’t really believe she wasn’t coming back.
It’s only been in these past several months that it’s started to really sink
in. I have days that I don’t want to see anyone, but I try to stay strong for
everyone else, including my children who are now 8, 5 and 2. The youngest, who
was born less than two weeks before Renae’s death, has glasses just like her
older sister and many of her mannerisms.
It’s hard
to tell Renae’s story, but I can hear her saying, “Go on, Mom.” It’s the only
thing I can do.
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